Reality of Domestic Violence

OK, so we all hear about domestic violence through many media outlets, but do we really know the facts? Many people don't want to deal with the facts, in fear of the truth that may be revealed. As a student in a social change class, as well as a soon to be graduate searching for a career in public relations, it is my responsibility to dig deep into stories and news to uncover the facts. After reviewing numerous sources on domestic violence, I have realized that this is a terror that people face all across the world! Domestic violence can happen to you, me, anyone! It is scary to think about, but there are people everywhere who have struggled and have been true survivors through the recovery process.

Many people who are abused, do not see themselves as being harmed or as a victim. It's crazy to think that a person could not see the evil behind the abuse, but like the individual being abused, an abuser does not see themselves as hurting anyone. Don't think you could point out an abuser in a crowd, because in most cases, you can't! There is no "typical" abuser that has all the suggested signs and traits. The abused may not know they are actually being harmed, since abuse comes in many forms. Usually people just think of physical abuse, but it can also be emotional, sexual and psychological.

The client that our class will soon be working with, Safe Harbor, provides a nurturing and safe environment for abused women and children. All the comforts of home are provided for these individuals. As a Safe Harbor client once said, "My life is peaceful now. I can spread my wings and fly." This is exactly what this home provides, a way to find yourself again and live a confident life. I look forward to working with Safe Harbor, knowing that I'm not only helping the organization, but I'm helping thousands of women and children get back on their feet and move towards a brighter future!

The questions I would ask, in order to provide sufficient services to the organization would be:

• What kinds of changes would you like to see happen in the organization?
• What could our team implement to benefit both the organization and the clients you serve?
• At the end of this project, what would you like to see happen for the organization? What are your expectations from us?
• What things are not working for the organization at this point? What things aren't?
• What is the most effective marketing tool you are using now? What is the least effective?

Domestic Violence.Org
SC Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault
Safe Harbor